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Friday, April 10, 2026
Starts at 11:00 am (Mountain time)
Nancy Buhrendorf Grindlay, born April 18, 1936, in Bronx, New York, passed away peacefully on March 22, 2026, after a courageous battle with cancer. She leaves behind a legacy of love, dedication, and joyful living.
Nancy graduated from Wheelock College with a degree in early childhood education, a calling that reflected her nurturing spirit and deep care for others. She went on to teach for over 25 years in Fairfax County, Virginia, where she touched countless young lives with her patience, kindness, and encouragement. Her impact as an educator lives on in the many students she guided and inspired.
A woman of warmth and vibrant energy, Nancy embraced life fully. She was a devoted member of P.E.O., valuing its mission and the friendships she built through it. She delighted in playing mahjongg with friends and found great joy in ballroom dancing, where her grace and enthusiasm lit up every room.
Nancy shared a remarkable 64-year marriage with her beloved husband, Alexander Grindlay. Together they built a life grounded in love, partnership, and family.
She is survived by her brother, Fred Buhrendorf Jr.; her three daughters, Nancy Grindlay,Elizabeth Walton, and Amy Iozzo; and her cherished grandsons, Garrett, Wesley, and Ethan, who brought her endless pride and happiness.
Nancy will be remembered for her gentle spirit, her generous heart, and her unwavering devotion to those she loved. Her life was a beautiful testament to kindness, connection, and the joy found in both simple moments and lifelong passions. She will be deeply missed and forever held in the hearts of all who knew and loved her.
Funeral services for Nancy will be held on Friday, April 10, at 11:00am at St Stephen’s Anglican Church, 2504 Sunnyside Rd, Montrose. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to HopeWest Hospice, 3090 N. 12th Street, Grand Junction, CO 81506
Friday, April 10, 2026
Starts at 11:00 am (Mountain time)
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