Katie Hildebrand

In Loving Memory of Katie Hildebrand

April 30, 1976 — January 7, 2026

With profound sadness, we share that Katie Hildebrand passed away unexpectedly on January 7, 2026. Born on April 30, 1976, Katie’s life was defined by warmth, generosity, and an effortless ability to turn strangers into friends. She greeted new people as potential companions rather than unknowns, and countless lives were brightened by her welcoming smile and genuine interest in others.

Katie’s compassion was active and unwavering. She devoted herself to feeding neighbors experiencing homelessness—never just offering a meal, but also sitting to chat, listen, and affirm their dignity. Professionally, she found purpose in home health, where caring for others was more than work; it was a calling. Outside of work, Katie delighted in playing with her grandchildren, spending unhurried time with her daughters, cheering at school and sporting events, and jeeping on Colorado trails with her partner. She stood shoulder to shoulder with friends and acquaintances facing medical challenges, terminal illnesses, and crises—often becoming friends in the process. Katie was also a steadfast ally to LGBTQ+ communities and passionate HIV advocate, lending her voice, time, and heart wherever support was needed.

Katie is lovingly survived by her partner, Josh Smith; her parents, Joan & Mark Nelson; her daughters (who she loved “to the moon and back”), Madison Mumaw (28) and Kassie Soto (32); and Kassie’s husband, Andy Soto; her sister, Marni Lyons (nieces Mackenzie & Kaileigh Lyons) . She was the adoring Grandma to Sophia and Greyson, whose laughter and milestones brought her endless joy.

Those who knew Katie will remember her for the way she made you feel—seen, included, and at home. Her legacy lives on in the communities she nurtured, the friends she welcomed, and the family she cherished beyond measure.

Memorial & Donations

In honoring Katie’s wishes, no flowers, please. If you feel moved to give, donations may be made to MADA commissary kitchen (17 N 6th St, Montrose, CO 81401 719-293-5044) or to Oak Grove Elementary School Farm (62100 Oak Grove Rd, Montrose CO 81401 970-249-6867). She assisted in the work party to get the farm up and going and her grandchildren love to participate in it. A celebration of Katie’s life will be held in the upcoming months and announcements will be made at that time.